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Post by Susan Peabody on Apr 16, 2016 16:49:53 GMT
If you don't like to argue just stop. Ok, well maybe there is more to it than that.
Most arguments are about power struggles, the division of labor and changing our partner.
If you stop doing this there is no need to argue.
You simply accept your partner as they are.
This, of course, is too simplistic so let me add that you should only accept what does not violate your own integrity or cost you a healthy relationship with yourself.
Once you find someone who is acceptable the fighting stops.
No one like this exists of course. So we must start the process of compromise.
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